I have not had actual sexual intercourse. However, I have committed sexual sin in my past (I have turned away from it now). The worst of that sexual sin being what I suppose they call “dry sex” (I assume you know what that entails).
The crux of her question: “would I be lying if I still call myself a virgin?”
Though I do answer that in today’s Q&A Stop and Start—along with a look at how the enemy uses guilt to keep us sinning, and a reminder of the totality of God’s forgiveness—I also toss back my own question in the process. What I want to know is,
Why just stop having dry-sex? Why not also get married and have real, God-ordained, wonderful, married sex? You’ve got a man you like enough to fool around with. Do you like him enough to marry him?
Read the whole conversation and send your own hard questions for future columns here.